In today’s world, married life comes with its unique set of joys and challenges. With the ups and downs of life, work, and the complexities of building a strong partnership, couples often find themselves searching for ways to experience deeper intimacy and joy with one another. Psalm 34:8 invites us to “taste and see that the Lord is good,” a promise that holds the key to transforming our relationships if we only choose to invite God into them. Just like sampling free items at Costco or trying a new product with an Amazon Prime trial, the invitation to experience God’s goodness is free—and once you taste, you will find that it transforms not only your life but also your marriage.
In this blog, we’ll explore how tasting and seeing God’s goodness can create a renewed sense of connection in your relationship. We’ll share practical tips to help you invite God into your marriage and guide you through a 28-day plan to experience His goodness in your relationship. Let’s explore what it means to truly experience God for yourself in your marriage.
The Power of “Tasting” God in Marriage
Imagine walking through a store and being invited to try a free sample of something. You taste it and either decide it’s not for you or find that you love it and can’t wait to have more. This is much like the invitation to “taste” God’s goodness in our lives. Psalm 34:8 gives us a picture of trying God out—coming closer to Him, experiencing Him, and finding satisfaction. The same principle can apply to marriage.
When couples allow God to take the center stage, they “taste” the peace, love, and joy that comes from inviting Him into their relationship. Marriage is not just two people coming together but two people working as a team to experience the blessings of God’s grace.
Think of Jesus’ miracle at the wedding in Cana (John 2:1-11). The guests ran out of wine, and the newlyweds faced potential embarrassment. But when Jesus got involved, He didn’t just provide wine—He gave the best wine. This is what happens when God is invited into our marriages. He doesn’t just meet the need; He surpasses our expectations.
Why You Need to Taste God’s Goodness in Your Marriage
Marriage often faces trials—whether it’s financial strain, communication issues, or simply the busyness of life. These trials can create tension and sometimes lead couples to grow apart. But experiencing God in your marriage can be a game-changer. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” When you invite God into your heart and your marriage, He helps guard it from bitterness, selfishness, and resentment that can erode relationships.
The idea of tasting and experiencing God means letting Him direct your marriage. This starts by opening your heart to His love and wisdom. Just like Peter, who reluctantly “tasted God” by casting his net at Jesus’ command and caught more fish than he could imagine (Luke 5:1-7), when you trust in God’s direction in your marriage, you will experience blessings beyond your expectations.
How to Taste God’s Goodness in Your Marriage
Tasting God’s goodness involves taking steps of faith and action. Here are some ways you can invite God into your marriage and experience His transformative power:
1. Pray Together Regularly
Prayer is a way of keeping communication open with God. As a couple, praying together is like sharing a meal—it nourishes your relationship with God and with each other. Matthew 18:20 reminds us that where two or three are gathered in His name, He is present.
Make it a priority to set aside time each day to pray as a couple. Pray about your challenges, celebrate your victories, and invite God to be present in your daily life.
2. Study the Bible Together
God’s Word is full of wisdom on how to live a life of love and faithfulness. By reading Scripture together, you not only grow spiritually but also strengthen the bond between you and your spouse. Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” Let God’s Word guide your marriage, helping you both to navigate challenges and celebrate joys.
For example, studying passages like Ephesians 5:22-33 can help couples better understand God’s vision for marriage. It shows the importance of mutual love, sacrifice, and respect within the marriage relationship.
3. Confess Your Struggles to One Another
Marriage is a place where we share our innermost thoughts, struggles, and fears. James 5:16 encourages us to confess our sins to one another and pray for each other so that we may be healed. Being open with your spouse about your weaknesses allows God to bring healing and restoration to the areas of your relationship that need it most.
4. Cultivate Gratitude
It’s easy to focus on what’s wrong in a marriage, but Psalm 100:4 tells us to “enter His gates with thanksgiving.” Developing a habit of gratitude can shift your perspective. Take time to thank God for your spouse and the blessings in your life. Reflect on how far you’ve come as a couple and how God has been faithful to you both.
A 28-Day Plan to Taste and See God’s Goodness in Your Marriage
Here’s a simple 28-day plan to help you invite God into your marriage and taste His goodness:
• Week 1: Pray Together Daily – Set aside 10-15 minutes every day to pray together as a couple. Focus on inviting God into your daily routines and challenges.
• Week 2: Study the Word Together – Choose a passage from the Bible that speaks about marriage or love. Discuss how it applies to your relationship.
• Week 3: Practice Gratitude – Every day, write down or share one thing you’re thankful for in your marriage. Praise God for His goodness.
• Week 4: Share Your Hearts – Have a deep conversation about your struggles, fears, and hopes. Commit them to God together.
Be on same PAGE with your spouse
Use the mnemonic P.A.G.E. to remember these steps:
- Pray Together
- Appreciate God’s Word
- Give Thanks
- Express Your Struggles
Conclusion: Taste and See for Yourself
Marriage is a journey filled with both challenges and blessings. But when you choose to “taste and see that the Lord is good,” you invite God’s goodness into every aspect of your relationship. By praying together, studying the Bible, confessing struggles, and cultivating gratitude, you can experience God’s transforming power in your marriage.
If you’re looking for a fresh start or a deeper connection with your spouse, this is your invitation to experience God for yourself in your marriage. Begin the journey today, and see how God’s goodness can bring new life and joy into your relationship.
Take the 28-day challenge and discover the blessings that come from walking with God together as a couple. You won’t just taste—you’ll see that He is good, and your marriage will be stronger for it.
